A Woman Deacon's Apostolate
The deaconess shared with the deacon the care of the sick and needy in the parish.
Let the deacons be in all things unspotted, as the bishop himself is to be, only more active; in number according to the largeness of the Church, that they may minister to the infirm as workmen that are not ashamed. And let the deaconess be diligent in taking care of the women; but both of them ready to carry messages, to travel about, to minister, and to serve, as spake Isaiah concerning the Lord, saying: "To justify the righteous, who serves many faithfully." Let every one therefore know his proper place, and discharge it diligently with one consent, with one mind, as knowing the reward of their ministration; but let them not be ashamed to minister to those that are in want, as even our" Lord Jesus Christ came not to be ministered unto, but to minister and to give His life a ransom for many." Apostolic Constitutions 3, no 19.
One special responsibility of the deaconess was looking after the widows, which in this period referred to a class of elderly women who received financial support from the community and who performed duties for the Church.
The widows therefore ought to be grave, obedient to their bishops, and their presbyters, and their deacons, and besides these to the deaconesses, with piety, reverence, and fear; not usurping authority, nor desiring to do anything beyond the constitution without the consent of the deacon: as, suppose, the going to any one to eat or drink with him, or to receive anything from anybody. But if without direction she does any one of these things, let her be punished with fasting, or else let her be separated on account of her rashness. Apostolic Constitutions 3, no 7
III, no 14. But those widows which will not live according to the command of God, are solicitous and inquisitive what deaconess it is that gives the charity, and what widows receive it. And when she has learned those things, she murmurs at the deaconess who distributed the charity, saying, Dost not thou see that I am in more distress, and want of thy charity? Why, therefore, hast thou preferred her before me? She says these things foolishly, not understanding that this does not depend on the will of man, but the appointment of God. For if she is herself a witness that she was nearer, and, upon inquiry, was in greater want, and more naked than the other, she ought to understand who it is that made this constitution, and to hold her peace, and not to murmur at the deaconess who distributed the charity, but to enter into her own house, and to cast herself prostrate on her face to make supplication to God that her sin may be forgiven her. For God commanded the deaconess who brought the charity not to proclaim the same, and this widow murmured because she did not publish her name, that so she might know it, and run to receive. Apostolic Constitutions 3,14
The deaconess also had a special task in evangelizing men and women in their homes.
This had been one of the original reasons for women's involvement in the apostolate, as we read in Clement of Alexandria: For the apostles, giving themselves without respite to the work of evangelism as befitted their ministry, took with them women, not as wives but as sisters, to share in their ministry to women living at home: by their agency the teaching of the Lord reached the womens quarters without arousing suspicion. Stromata Book 3, chap. 6, 53.
An example of this apostolate is given by Theodoret of Cyrus (466 AD) who tells the story of a deaconess in Antioch who instructed and converted the son of a pagan priest in the Christian faith. Out of propriety, or perhaps for safety reasons, she is known as Anonyma. This was the period of the persecutions under Emperor Julian (361-363 AD). After fully preparing the young man for baptism, she helped him escape from his father's house so that he could join the Christian communityn in a safer locality. (Details in Anne Jensen, Gottes selbstbewusste Töchter: Frauenemanzipazion im frühen Christentum, Freiburg 1992, pp. 49-50.